So, long story short. My husband and I have been together for 5 year, about 4-5 months into the relationship he was inappropriately messaging other women from his hometown. I eventually found it, it was a big deal but we stayed together 🙄. I’ve always wondered if he ever had sex with any of them but I never knew for sure. Today, like just now, I pulled out my old phone to look at baby pictures and I came across 2 pics that I realized was around the same time as some of the messages when he was asking to meet up. One of the pics was like a love note that he left on the door because he was leaving for the weekend to go visit his family (which is only an hour away). He also sent a dick pic. I noticed the date was the same month as the messages and then noticed it was the same weekend. I wanna bring it up plus other issues we’ve had concerning him lying and being inappropriate in the past. Should I just let it go because it happens almost 5 years ago? Apart of me really wants to know if he ever slept around.

Update: I still suspect that he will again and I don’t completely trust him. All is not good because he’s lied about so many things in the past and is probably still lying about things. He shuts me out of social media. I honestly don’t trust him...that’s why I want to say something...after VDay