So im 17 weeks pregnant. I was pretty small before pregnancy at 115lb. Now I gained a few pounds im at 123 and looking a little pudgy the belly. It doesn’t look like im pregnant yet just like i gained weight.

I was putting oil on my belly and my husband went like “wow! You’re looking big! You look like a sloppy chubby girl now” and it reeeally made me sad because i already feel self conscious about it and him pointing it out is hurtful.

I told him its really hurtful and he tried to backtrack and said “no we both know ur pregnant its not like you just gained weight for no reason, thats not what i meant...”

But still.... it hurts.