Advice and thoughts are appreciated. So I posted a while back in a different group last month but no one saw it. Posting here in an active group now. So I’ll give you all the short end. I sent my fiancé black to his dad’s so that I could get some much need space and clarity after he pushed me while upset. It wasn’t a hard push but still there was irritation and frustration in it and he has a big temper. When he gets upset I never know what he is going to do. He has cursed at me, hung up on me, threatened to throw my small pets out (they are guinea pigs and will get rated by birds no doubt) which mean so much to me, like babies. But he has NEVER put his hands on me. So I was taken aback by the push! No man has ever treated me this poorly except for when I was raped back in college. So, First of February I took him to his dad’s and now it’s Thursday and he is saying he wants to come back. Texting my phone. Calling me while I am at work. He and his dad do not always get along so I know he is blowing up my phone cuz his dad probably told him something nasty. But WHY should that be my problem. It’s making me anxious because I TOLD HIM I need him to respect that I NEED this space. How dare he try to force his way back in? Trying to take power back like I don’t have control over my own house. Like he thought this was a tv show where in the next episode everything is back to normal and it’s a new story!? I am trying so hard to keep peace and he is being a big bad wolf trying to blow my house down. I’m trying to stay calm but I know he will probably call and cal and text

tonight when he knows I’m off work.