Anyone else taking your sleep deprivation out on husband/partner?

Annie

I feel guilty about it because my husband works and I stay at home. But I feel like because of that his sleep has been priority from the beginning. He works like 12 hour shifts/ 6 days a week and when he comes home I have between 2-4 hours to rush around and get things done that I can’t do with a baby in my arms. For example pump, cook, maybe a little bit of cleaning (just essentials like taking out full trash) and my baby is pretty clingy at this point so if one of us isn’t holding him he gets super fussy and is hard to calm down/get to a nap. So we just take turns holding him and then my husband is back to sleep and work. And lately I have been getting so bitchy with him since I’m on such low amount of sleep and just feel so alone in all of this.. it’s not his fault and he really does everything he can to help so I feel guilt about it. 😞