I’m someone who has tried damn near every type of birthcontrol and every pill (well I feel like it at least) and I always get batshit crazy mood changes whenever I’m taking hormones.

My boyfriend refuses to have sex with me because I’m not on birthcontrol (fair enough, but I’m only getting laid like once every three months), so I want to try out Paraguard because it’s non- hormonal. I’ve tried it once before back when I was 17, and it was so painful I got it removed at the er that same day. I’m 21 now and want to give it another go as I feel that’s my last option.

Problem is my boyfriend doesn’t want to talk about birthcontrol, I want to take him into a gyno appointment with me to discuss options because honestly, the lack of sex is ruining me.

I’m nervous to bring it up because I’m afraid he won’t want to go, and really, I’m asking for opinions, viewpoints, and ideas on how I should bring it up. And if anyone has experienced this before with their significant other, I feel like I’m the only one who can’t take hormones due to extreme mood changes.

Thanks everyone!!!!😁😁