Ladies since Valentines Day is coming up, I want to remind y’all of somethings. If he wanted to, he would. If you are into a guy and he says he’s not wanting a relationship/enjoys being single, that may be true but take it that he’s just not that into you. He tells you that then gets into a relationship shortly after/couple months later, he’s just not that into you but don’t beat yourself up over it. You’re still a baddie. Stop waiting for dudes to be ready or putting your life on hold, always do you. If a girl lives in another state and he will travel to see her, yet you live in the same state less than 30 mins away, and he doesn’t message you or leaves you feeling confused, he’s just not that into you. If you have to beg for your love language to be met, he will not change. If he’s not super romantic and you knew that from the start and are ok with that, then you’re fine, but if you expect a dude to suddenly become romantic and do little surprises, he will not change. Stop begging men to treat you right or how you want to be treated...you deserve the absolute best from the start. If you’re in a relationship and he doesn’t speak your love language or you feel any less on that day, treat yourself

If you’re single or feel down even tho you’re in a relationship, a day commercialized for love doesn’t determine your worth, only you do. Do you on that day! Literally, pull out those toys and treat yourself right. Get drunk (you know if this option is best for you or not), buy yourself chocolate and I mean the nice kind or hell cheap chocolate be Bomb asf too, buy yourself flowers, catch up on some sleep, clean your space, go to your meeting if you’re in a program, cause what we’re not about to do is cry over a Sunday and feel down about ourselves

If you don’t celebrate Valentines Day and you feel neutral on this day, have a bomb asf Sunday, love.