Hi everyone. I’m currently a mom of an 8 month old who I love dearly. And a fiancé to my best friend.

The topic of another baby has been in our minds since our daughter turned 6 months, but it was just too early. But we kept bringing it up but there was always an little excuse for something that made us put it off.

I finished my last birth control pack a few days ago and it’s really deepened the want to have another kid for the both of us. He’s set on it and set on whatever I do. But I’m having little second thoughts.

I’m scared of going through childbirth again and the after birth pains. I’m nervous about what people would say since we are young (23 but we’ve been together since 14). I’m nervous because we have a family reunion trip in December and the baby will be born around then if we do get pregnant.

There’s just so many things!! But the want to have another little one seems so perfect. We’re pretty well off and live on our own. And their age gap would be 1 1/2 years. Is that a good age gap?

Opinions? Opinions from mamas with close babies?

Thank you 🥰