My husband is secretly subscribed to Onlyfans. He is also hiding some serious debt and lied to me about it. I've been paying off the debt he shared with me. Alone. I found out he is pulling in quite a bit of other money ($700 in Jan) and didn't tell me about it. He's telling me he is completely broke. But he also spent over $300 last month on phone games. He's letting me pay 80% of the bills, buy all of the groceries and keep the house running all by myself. I'm stressed out and I feel betrayed and deceived. I feel dumb af.

Is it reasonable for me to be upset or am I blowing this out of proportion?? He has a deep history of lying in our marriage and im getting fed up.