How do you make a baby if you don’t have sex?

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Just a tiny little vent session.

It’s super frustrating to me that my husband and I have been TTC for 5 months now.

Occasionally when I’m in my peak window, instead of finishing with sex, he wants to be finished with a blow job, or me beside him.

Like WHY. We aren’t going to make a baby that way.

And before any of you say.. well don’t make it a chore... well when you are months in, you sort of have to make it a little bit of a chore. I don’t do opks for nothing, I don’t temp for the hell of it. We have sexy time when we want to, but to me it should always be finished in baby dancing.

I’ve tried to talk to him and he always just says relax, it’ll be fine.

Any advice? Any ladies understand?

Trying to handle this gracefully and not have to run to the bathroom to wipe tears every time he finishes outside of me. 🙈😞