Long story short I just had my little bundle of joy, and my child's father loves us and wants to be with us, but only under his circumstances. I am living safely in a small town and he lives in the big apple. He keeps trying to persuade me to come live there woth our child because he makes fast money at a dead end job, and is trying to save qlot of money to do things back in his country. I told him no I have nobody in new york and I dont want to raise my child in the city. I was woth him in new york but after I got pregnant my parents persuaded me to come home because our living situation was bad and stressful. So I moved back home and he stayed. Hes fucked up alot of times, he cheated while we were long distance. He cheated with a prostitute while I was pregnant. When I was there he never spent quality time with me, and he has a car but couldn't drive me to work everyday dventhough we worked close together. Harlem, for me and Manhatten for him.

I was stressed about our relationship the whole pregnancy and I had my baby early. I got a c section and had complications after leaving the hospital. He was not there for me because he said he had bills. And had to pay back money to my parents and sister for all the things they bought for the baby. Theres so much more but what im asking is has anyone had a rough start to a relationship and it ended up succesful?