Who is the dominant in the relationship?

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Sexually? I’m extremely submissive. He’s definitely more dominant than me. Outside of sex, we’re equal

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This is a tricky one. As much as I love parts of being a sub, I can't fully be a sub. I enjoy the pain/pleasure aspect. The restraints and bondage and whips and floggers and all that. But I don't have the right mind set to be an actual sub. Like. Nah. No arbitrary rules and random made up punishments. I want you to do these things to me because I enjoy it and I want it when I want it. Not when you want it or because you say I have to. 
On the other hand as much as I love pain being inflicted upon me, I do not enjoy inflicting pain upon others so I'm definitely not cut out for being a dom. My husband would never ask me to be a sub, but he's okay doing the things I enjoy (the bondage and whips and all that) but he doesn't enjoy the same pain/pleasure response that I do. So that only goes one way. He's also too soft to be a full dom. We're just kinky without the titles. Works for us.

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I don’t know if I’d say dominant but I’m more of the decision maker at home. My husband has a very demanding job, all day he’s putting out fires, managing employees and making decisions. When he gets home he likes to chill and know most things are decided. Of course I ask him his input on big stuff but generally he’s ok with whatever I’m choosing, he’s an easy going man!

Who is the dominant in the relationship?

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