Rough or slow

Ra

I just found out I am pregnant. I am terrified to have rough sex with my husband. I love rough sex. I haven’t told my husband just yet that I am pregnant, I am waiting to surprise him on Valentine’s Day. I know it’s mental but I am afraid of something bad happening if we have rough sex. I have told him let’s have slow sensual sex, and he has done that. So all my pregnant ladies what have y’all done?