So we’ve been married a while and in the last few months he’s picked up a gaming habit. It’s bad. We have 3 kids under 4 and I am expecting my 4th in 5 weeks!

His habit is really affecting the way I feel towards him because of how much it’s affecting our kids and our marriage. Here’s some examples.

1) I’ll be asleep and I’ll hear my 1 year old crying his eyes out.. my husband will leave him for ages to cry.. eventually he’ll stomp his feet and swear under his breath and eventually give him his dummy back. The reason I wait for him is because I’m currently on crutches and struggle walking.

2) He finishes at 5 am, he has to wake up for work at 8 am. He works from home. Instead of actually working he logs in and goes back to sleep... until 2pm..

3) In the morning while I clean and deal with the elder 2 he lets our 1 year old SCREAM for ages. It doesn’t bother him.. I have to them go upstairs and get him

4) We hardly ever have time for “me and him” I have to beg him to finish and sit with me..

All of this is really affecting us and I’m scared when the new born comes I’m going to get no help what so ever..

my husband now is in a mood with me because he went through my phone and seen my messages about one of my friends who I described as “nice to look at but a bit immature” and he’s been acting up all day

I just don’t know what to do anymore.. In no way am i a cheat but my friend shows me more attention when we’re together ( not in a flirty way) but we just have a good funny general chat. Something me and my husband haven’t had in a while..

I don’t feel anything anymore I’m just numb..