I had an ectopic in October and we went the methotrexate route. Pretty much non stop bleeding for October.

Had two periods in November and was finally regular in December.

Well at the time after it happened the nurse and doctor at the time told me we could TTC after 3 cycles.

Because I didn’t feel regular I didn’t know when the “cycles” were to be considered to start. I saw on here people were often told 3 months after

Well I. Mid January I had HORRIBLE back pain and talk about PTSD I called the gyno and was panicking because I didn’t know if there were still complications or cysts or what so I go for apt to a dr that was helping the clinic out (because I scheduled a same day) well this dr basically freaking out on me for not getting an IUD after the ectopic because I should not get pregnant for a year after because I could die

So here I am already in so much pain and a de tells me I can’t try to get pregnant for a year WTF

Now here I am past 3 cycles/3 months - and I have an apt with my regular gyno on the 19th but tracking wise I ovulate this week. Should we just try? It was all just traumatic from the ectopic/finding out on my bday I was going to have to lose the baby/ the doctor scaring me a couple weeks ago that I just need some other feedback you guys might have gotten from your doctors?