I’m 38 weeks pregnant. I’m about to have a baby with a guy i thought i would spend the rest of my life with. But tonight he told me he’s not in love with me anymore, that i don’t give him “butterflies” like all of his previous girlfriends, and that even my presence just pisses him off. i’m not “bubbly” or “outgoing” and i don’t make his heart melt like other people did. I don’t know what i’ve done to him to make him hate me. He’s cheated on me before, right before getting pregnant. i forgave him and decided to try to make it work for a family and a future together. But now he tells me that he doesn’t love me the way i love him and he only shows me affection because i like it, not because he wants to. I have always just loved and cared for him, and i have never shown him a reason to question that. What’s so wrong with me that he can’t love me? My anxiety and insecurities? He knows that they are only this bad because i am pregnant, and my hormones are all messed up. i wasn’t like this before i got pregnant. he told me he would give me time because he knows that a lot of my anxieties and insecurities simply stem from my hormones, and not having an outlet to relieve anything. i used to smoke but obviously i can’t do that right now. I just don’t know how to move on and try to be happy and work on myself, let him kiss me and hug me and show me affection if i know he’s only doing it to make me happy. That he doesn’t actually love me