IVF & morality

PLEASE I’m asking honestly and not trying to get hated on here.

I was raised pretty religious in terms of views of things like fertility and reproduction and have been told by my doctor that IVF will probably be my best chance of conception. From my understanding, and maybe I need some more education on it, I’m just struggling with the potential loss of so many fertilized embryos. I know some can be frozen for use in the future too but still. I’m on a roller coaster of emotions right now, trying to figure out if adoption is the right route instead and if I’m ready to give up the thought of ever being pregnant in my life or making a child with my spouse 😞💔

I just was looking for maybe facts about how many eggs you had fertilized & what happened to the other ones, or if you had similar questions or concerns & how you coped with it or decided IVF was the best for you?

I have an appointment with a fertility counselor to talk through my options and some of my concerns but also wanted some real life examples.