Recently me and my boyfriend of two years haven’t been in the best of terms. We have gotten a bit distant, don’t see each other as much, only on his day off (Sunday’s), and it seems like he shows no interest. Doesn’t get jealous when guys flirt with me, he kind of takes it as a compliment.

So I would like to say about August/September I met this guy at work and he was super sweet and caring, outgoing and just someone you can have a blast with 24/7. We exchanged numbers (he bought some pastries I bake needed a way to contact him), and after that we would talk from time to time and check up on each other, I had quit early November. But between August-November I got to know more about him, and started to like him for who he was, he showed interest in knowing me personally unlike my boyfriend who got with me for my “body”.

Yesterday the guy had texted me after sometime, proceeded to call me, and then call me again at night. He expressed himself towards me saying that he liked me, that I was the one for him, and a lot of other things I found very sweet. He asked me and I told him I felt some sort of attraction but that nothing could go past that. WE WERE ON THE PHONE FOR TWO HOURS!!!

Now, I feel super horrible but cannot stop thinking about him or what he said, I got really nervous and butterflies when I spoke to him. I still love my boyfriend but I’m also liking someone unintentionally. ADVICE ANYONE.

P.S. He knows my mom. We all worked together, I met him through my mom and I had told her about him texting me and she actually spoke to him on the phone when he had called me the first time. She has said previously that she has a lot of love for him, as in a second son or just an addition to the our big family.

Also sorry for the really long story, there’s just a lot and wanted you guys to fully understand.