*Long rant*

My MIL is so toxic. Before my husband and I found out we were expecting she demanded she knew first because and I quote “I’m grandma, I deserve to know first” i was like okay whatever. Fast forward a couple of months, we found out I was pregnant. We told my parents first, then his grandparents. His grandma asked if we told his mom and I said no. She said that if she finds out that she knew first she’d get pissed. But I really didn’t care because I’ve told his mom numerous things and told her not to say anything and she did.

But a few days later we told her because my husband said we should. He forgot to tell her not to say anything. Not that he should of had too because it’s common sense? Right? No. She told her boyfriend or whatever he is. I don’t even know the guy. And she told him our business. She said I hope you’re not mad. Mad? No. That’s an understatement. I’m pissed. My husband was even pissed and he doesn’t get pissed at his mom very often. I told her his grandparents didn’t know, to see if she could keep it a secret. If she did, I’m surprised. If she didn’t they played it off well.

His mom was like thank you so much for finally telling her! I was having such a hard time keeping it from her. You’re such a sweetheart for doing that for me. Like honey. I didn’t it for you. I did it so you’d stop bugging me.

She asked her step like daughter a question I had. But I did not ask her to ask anyone for me. So I was like oh so she knows now? And everyone else is going to know because she’ll tell her sister and her mom. And they will tell everyone. My husband got even more pissed. She said no that she said was asking for a friend. But the thing is. They aren’t that stupid they’ll put two and two together.

I told her if she told anyone else that would be the last time I told her anything so I think that may help her keep it to herself from now on. I also told both of them together that when I have another child I will not be telling anyone until I am ready.