So my husband and I don’t have sex often. I have a much higher sex drive than him. I am still just as sexually attractive to him as I was 10 years ago. But now my sex drive is low and is has gotten higher. I am in nursing school/working/commuting an hour and a half to school and he works 12 hours Mon-Fri. So we are both exhausted. But I feel so bad because I haven’t been giving him attention because I am SO tired and stressed. I can’t even get into it despite my attraction. I tell him I’m tired and he totally understands cause when I had the higher sex drive he would feel the same way.

How do I get my drive back? I’m feeling so bad that I’m rejecting him because I know what is like. And he’s even doing the things I love but I just do not have the energy 😔