I hate feeling left second by my husband?

Okay so I feel he picks his family more over me ok so we dated for four years and married two years I love him but I feel like it’s not really working out so I did the k1 visa for him process he has his permanent green card now and he wants to go to dr to see his family and all that and I will go get surgery because it’s tax season so he will pay for my surgery. So his family some people have disrespected me a lot when I was there one of his aunts told him not in front of me but to him that he needed a different type of women and if he was just with me for the papers he said no. And that same aunt came to me pretending to like me like no bitch you and your daughter gossiping about me also. So that’s why I don’t want to stay in his moms house because they always go visit like ugh 🤦🏽‍♀️ can I just be stress free. I just want to go get my tummy tuck lipo bbl and come back to the states fast I’m even scared of covid but I been careful I barely leave my house. His mom and brother will probably be looking at me strange since every time we fight he has told them. I wanted him to go with me and stay in hospital with me so I could save extra so I don’t need to get a nurse but I guess I will have too because he rather be at mommy’s house. Like wtf 🤬 I’m your wife your obligation is to be with me at least during hospitalization stay.