I’m 22 and my boyfriend is 26. We’ve been dating for almost 6 months now and we both think we’ve gotten too comfortable like we don’t go on dates anymore. All we do is literally go to his house and do our “thing” and also we both think we had sex too soon (we started dating on August 20 and we did it for the first time together on his birthday August 26) 😬 at first it was okay and it was good but i feel that’s all there is but i know it isn’t, we have so much in common bc we went on couple of dates before becoming official and was amazing. I mentioned this to him and says he also wants us to not have a lot of sex and to take a step back to actual have dates. Also he said he would like it to happen once every two weeks but last night I went over for something and it just happened and instead of feeling good, I actually feel bad that it happened after having a conversation about calming ourselves even though he started it. After we finished, i said jokingly “wow we need help for real” and he said “you think?” So my question is, how can I set boundaries for us? It’s nice that we both enjoy each other and the sexual attraction is there, but I also miss the “us” before the sex. I want to have both, but less sex since it’s been a while that we’ve gone to dates. Please help or share how you did it if you went through this as well