Why do the men I like never like me back

I don’t know what I’m doing wrong, I’m friendly and chatty, not too bad in the looks department, have a unique style, im creative

I’m into men that not super hot, I like dad bods and men that are intelligent and mature. Yet the guys I like never ever show interest in me and I get these ultra fit, creepy guys chase me instead.

I’ve never been chased by someone I actually like and I’m really worried what’s wrong with me

What confuses me is I live in a house share and the new guys always fancy the other girls and try and impress them etc but they’ve never liked me. Makes me feel confused why I never get men ;(