How do I respond to this?
So me and my ex have been on and off for 2 years and some months now. We’ve been pretty much dating for a while now but we’re not official. Anyways, since yesterday he’s been acting funny. Like acting like he doesn’t want to talk to me, texting me “bye” and last night he told me he was done and not to text him because when he called me after work he didn’t like “my energy” despite that I was in pain all day dealing with neck tension and a tension headache and he knew that! Then hours later he wanted to come by because he said he was “horny and he missed me” I declined. I woke up today and I didn’t text him because I was still upset about last night but he texted me saying “buy us breakfast, get cash and get us ihop”, I told him I didn’t have it as I’m saving for an apartment and he said “that’s tough, get it”. I ignored him and he texted me a few mins later inquiring about sex but I let him know I’m on my period so he proceeds to say “Good, smd” I said no and he said okay. So 2 hours later I texted him and asked what he was doing...no response. So I waited hours and nothing...so I texted and asked “so are you ignoring me lol?” 4 mins later his response was the inserted photo...that was 2 hours ago and I have yet to respond.
Not to mention he texts his ex/baby mama alllllll the time, even when we’re together but he says they’re talking about the kid (he’s 6 months) but I doubt it and I just feel like something is off. He did cheat on me with her almost our whole “relationship” and got her pregnant when we weren’t dealing with each other. He says they are just co parents.
He even told me that he’ll get me something for Valentine’s Day and I’ll get it Saturday but we’re not doing anything on that actual day because it’s 52 min to me from his dads apparently and he’s not driving that long. He just started staying with his dad until his apartment is ready in March bc his mom just moved back to their hometown.
I just don’t know what to do anymore, the way he’s been acting is funny (even though he’s usually mean when he’s mad) and I just have this feeling. He talks about marrying me and being with me forever and only me, he says he loves me. We hang out like alllll the time and do relationship things...idk if I’m overreacting but I know I do not want to get played...again
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