So when my 3 month old baby wakes up. The first thing I do is pick him up is kiss him on the cheek and hug him, check his diaper and sit and play with him for about 20 min. Then I let him lay on his tummy time play thing and play while I do a couple things and get his bottle ready. While playing with him I take a couple pics of him of course then I put my phone aside the rest of the time.

Now much husband doesn’t really do that. He does play with him but deff not as much as I do. He will go for the binkie first, then put him in his swing, and if he starts fussing he will try to lay him down in his bassinet and then because none of that work he will play for like 3 min put him back in his swing and continue to play on his phone of go play on his computer.

Now I’ve tried to tell him he needs to put his phone down or step away from his computer and he will but then turn around 2 min later and go back to using either of the two. I don’t know what to do or what else to say to him.