My husbands sperm analysis came back, the secretary sent me the results, and all she said was “the doctor wants him to follow up with a urologist because the results are abnormal.” I’ve done the unspeakable and been googling but I feel like I’m getting no where. Anyone have experience in this?

My husband and I have to go to see a fertility specialist and I feel so numb regarding this all. We’ve been trying for 7 months with no success. I just felt like everything would be normal. And it was just bad timing. But here we are.

Worst part is (I DO NOT BLAME MY HUSBAND) but being around him makes me even more sad. I thought it would make me feel better but it doesn’t. Again I don’t blame him but part of me wishes it was me with the issues and not him. So here we are. ☹️