My boyfriend and I have plans to hang out on Valentine’s Day, and then go to dinner. However, last night he texted me and said that he might not be able to go. His parents are upset about his grades all of the sudden. We are both in high school by the way. His grades are bad, and he doesn’t try in school. He gets distracted and finds other things he would rather be doing than studying or doing homework. He probably has C and D’s. I’m the complete opposite. I force myself to sit down and study and do my homework, even though I would rather be doing basically anything else. I have all A’s.

I’m honestly just annoyed because if he just applied himself a little more in school, then we could see each other on Valentine’s Day. It’s just one day and it’s fine I guess, but I wanted to see him. We usually just cuddle and watch tv/Netflix when we see each other. I was looking forward to having an excuse to go to a nice dinner and have something different to do then just sit and cuddle. That’s good and all, but I get tired of that after awhile. I love him, but I’m just annoyed and disappointed. I’m the type of person who likes and looks forward to anniversary’s, birthday, and most holidays. It’s a special day and they should be treated that way. However, he doesn’t care about most of that stuff. He cared about our one year anniversary, but he doesn’t really care when it comes to each month and it’s the 10th (our anniversary). We’ve been dating for a year and 3 months. Maybe I’m overreacting though. Maybe I should just let this stuff go.

He’s going to talk to his parents to see if they’ll let us see each other on Valentine’s Day, but I’m not really holding out hope. I don’t even know why I’m making this post to be honest, I’m just ranting I guess. I don’t know what to do. I’m not going to tell him that I’m annoyed or disappointed though, because then he’ll feel bad.

Sorry this is a long post. Any thoughts would be appreciated!