There are good guys out there right?

Question

I don’t have to settle for the father of my children right?.... he calls me names so often and tells me I deserve it. He’s really amazingly sweet sometimes but I don’t think those make up for the emotional abuse.
Do any of you guys have husbands that don’t cheat, gawk at girls, never call you names, helps you with kids and house? Is it real life or do I stay because we have kids?

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There are good guys out there, trust me. 
I dated a guy that cheated on me more times than I can count. He belittled me constantly. He would block me and then come back when it was convenient for him. I finally had enough and left him. Shortly after, I met my now husband, who truly is the worlds greatest. It will come, never ever settle for less!

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Yes! There are good men out there. Yours sounds more like a boy. 😬
My husband does not call me names. Ever. Besides, beautiful, baby, sexy lady, etc. He does not look at other women. He could do better about helping with the house. 😂 
But he does help out here and there with household things, and he cooks a lot. He does all the grocery shopping. He surprises me with my favorite take out, and chocolate. He makes my coffee in the morning. He goes out and warms up my car when it’s cold, and scrapes the snow off so I don’t have to.  
He has been right by my side through the birth of our three babies, and our miscarriage. He held me, and cried with me. He is amazing. 
I can be scrubbing the kitchen, and he comes in and hugs me from behind and tells me how beautiful, and amazing I am. 
So, yes girl. There are good men out there. You deserve a man who at the LEAST is respectful of you!! And wants you, and only you!

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Think about it this way: do you want your kids following this example when they get older? Do you want your children to treat their partners like this? Do you want them to be treated this way? I’m assuming the answer is no. Kids first and main example of what relationships look like is at home.

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I married a man I hope my boys will grow up to be just like. He works full time and goes to night school full time, and still allows me to sleep in, he cooks and cleans and watching our son.  He has never called me a name.  If you would not want your daughter to date soMebody like him, or your son to grow up and be like him, do not have children with him.

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Absolutely not! Do not stay, I was in a horrible relationship he was really verbally abusive always told me no one would ever love me, I am the problem. Now I am with an amazing guy that tells me all the time how beautiful and strong I am all the time. He is redicules, every time I change he acts like it's his first time seeing me naked and it's been 3 years (I know not crazy long but I couldn't stand any of my other ex's faces that made it past 1 year and a half 🤣) , he also has a full time job as a boss at a mojor roofing company and still helps me cook and clean, so to answer your question yes they do exist

One thing I did have to do is let go of my "standard" if I met my man when I was in my early 20s I would not have talked to him probably to be honest, he is 5'5" and I am 6 feet tall, he is a hairy little bastard and I absolutely never saw my self with someone who is as hairy as he is but I absolutely love him and don't mind when I have to help him with any problem hairs he can't get it has a problem with (eye brows and his one time HORRIBLE idea to shave his little back patch for the beach he wanted to be hair free for me ❤️🤭) but I am so freaking lucky to know I would literally never worry about him cheating or being creepy twords any other women he has been cheated on and has made it clear how much it hurt him and fucked him up. So hold in and do not take any less than you deserve because they are certainly out there!!! Best if luck do not settle 💘🥰

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Never stay in situations like that.
My husband is the total opposite of everything you listed, he is a great husband and father. And he is NOT an anomaly, he’s just one example of the many, many good men out there.

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Yes there are great guys out there!! 
I can’t believe how incredible my husband is, I can honestly say I’m thankful everyday for the man that he is and that I found him. Sometimes I feel like I don’t deserve him, then I remember the pregnancy hormones aren’t forever, my mood swings will pass 😆. 
Don’t settle, ever.

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Never stay just because you have kids. You want to raise them in a happy home. Yes good guys exist, don’t settle.

There are good guys out there right?

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