I’m not having sex with him until he listens
Okay so I just got over the worst yeast infection of my entire life.
It was so bad I bled. It took monistat and 3 doses of diflucan and antifungal cream.
of course I also stopped having sex because that would just make it worse. BUT, I was still having sex before I had symptoms. It didn’t show symptoms until it GOT VERY VERY BAD.
My so said something about his penis being sore and I looked at it and right under the head there’s dead skin and it’s all red and inflamed and reminded me of what my vulva looked like before being treated. I’m like you caught the yeast infection from me.
I go to the store and get lotrimin for jock itch because that’s literally what it is. He has jock itch. For guys it’s called jock itch.
ALL this man has to do is put this cream on his penis after a shower and then 2 more times during the day after going pee and go about his day. It doesn’t hurt, or smell or anything. All he has to do is put it on.
I have had to like talk him into it everytime because “my dick doesn’t even hurt I don’t see why I need to do this.”
And I’m like here’s the thing dude. Yeast infections are so much harder on women than they are on men 99.9% of the time, and I am just now getting over a yeast infection that was so bad I bled and cried and had to sit on an ice pack and use multiple different medications some of which were NOT painless.
Put this cream on your dick or I’m not going to have sex with you. I am not getting a yeast infection again because we keep passing it back and forth. I have spent the last week and a half being miserable, sleeping with an Ice cold rag on my swollen vagina.
I’m not going to give in on that. I wish I could emphasize the pain of this yeast infection. It was so bad i was throwing up because it’s an infection. My whole body hurt.
If you think I’m wrong for this, go get a lighter and light the inside of your vagina on fire and tell me, if you had to deal with that because your man cant manage to put a simple cream on his penis that was made for the reason he needs it, I promise you.
You would feel exactly like I do.
I feel like a new woman. It no longer hurts to pee. I am no longer in constant agony. My vagina is healing and becoming it’s healthy self again and he wants to put his yeast infection PP back in me.
NOPE.
Like have a broken pecker if you want to but It’s not going inside of me.
All he has to do is use a cream.
I had to drive to a doctor and take my pants off and have this doctor inspect my vagina. I had to have a speculum inserted while the inside of my vagina was on fire. My gynecologist said “oh my gosh. That’s one hell of a yeast infection.” And he tested me for STDS that’s how bad it was. It was embarrassing.
And all men need it jock itch cream. He doesn’t have to go to the store for it. I did that for him, he just has to use it.
I just don’t get.. men. I don’t get men.
I am withholding sex until he treats his yeast infection.
Nah. The cream doesn’t hurt him. He has very minor jock itch, and it doesn’t even hurt right now. However if he doesn’t start treating it it WILL hurt.
The whole reason he won’t put it on is because “it doesn’t even hurt anymore it’s not that big of a deal. It just hurt at first.” and I asked him the cream hurt and he said no he just doesn’t get why he has to do it. It’s like if it’s not broken don’t fix it in his head. No that thing is not coming near me. It needs antifungal cream.
He says he’s not going to the doctor. I’m not his mother im his girlfriend and if he can’t use a cream so that we both have healthy genitalia then he won’t get laid.
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