What if your husband said this to you?

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So my husband has been acting very sketchy with social media, and use to like my stuff all the time (which I don’t care about) but now he suddenly stopped even when i tag him in something, he ignores it. and I asked why (as he’s always on there) and he said “i’m not taking time out of my day to like your shit” how would you feel if this is suddenly said to you? When he’s clearly on his phone 24/7.

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Then I would say something is off because his behavior towards you has changed 
If he did it a lot and it’s abruptly stopped and that comment.... somethings off

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Since he’s always on his phone & social media that would strike me as weird & his response would be rude.

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That comment is way out of line. I’ll be damned if my husband spoke to me like that. We aren’t huge social media users so things like this don’t matter to us but that comment is unnecessary. I’d keep an eye on it.

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When it happened to me i was being cheated on. Talk to him and ask him if something is bothering him.

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See this is why my SO doesn’t have social media so much unnecessary drama
Why does this matter so much it’s just a like on something.
Can you not just show him something when your sitting together In The evenings? 
As long as your actually marriage is ok I would worry less about FB

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I’d be concerned when behavior suddenly changes to aggressive like that

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Ignore the miserable low life’s commenting rude crap, yes it’s off ! If someone suddenly changes their normal behaviors and starts becoming short tempered with you , there is something they are hiding especially if they are constantly on their phone.
Our partners are suppose to speak our love language and a simple “post” isn’t a “simple post” to everyone. 
Me and my fiancé love tagging eachother in stuff and heart eachothers post, we are on social media so why not? If i haven’t seen something he posted, he will tell me to go look at it and i do and i never would ever say something so cruel to him. It’s his and mines love language and if he ever said that towards me and was on his phone still I’d yank that phone out of his hand and confront him about what’s up his ass and what he’s hiding. 
Changes in behavior towards you is never a good thing i learned this in psychology. 
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Yikes! That’s so disrespectful. I would never respond to my significant other like that and I would expect the same from him. Definitely is sketchy behavior if he’s going to respond that why when approached about it. If it were me, I’d go into snoop mode for sure.

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He was a little rude. But I am going to approach this from a different direction. You don’t have to answer these, they are just for your reflection: Do you post constantly? Do you post controversial things or things he does not agree with? Do you post fake news, spam, etc? Are you one of those people who regularly posts motivational memes but are an unsuccessful and unmotivated person? 
I am not saying these things to upset you. These are things that can be annoying to followers on social media. Maybe he doesn’t like your content. Maybe someone said something to him about your posts, like a mutual friend or someone in his family. I have some family members that I love but had to stop following due to political posts, stupid memes, misinformation, or constant stupid motivational posts.
You two should have a talk about what is behind his attitude change. Try not to get defensive or get into an argument. Maybe there is a reasonable explanation. And maybe you can tell him that while you don’t expect him to like or comment on your posts regularly, you were hurt by the tone of his comment about your posts.

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I get that it’s social media, but that comment was extremely rude and unnecessary. He’s too busy liking other girls’ photos, probably.

What if your husband said this to you?

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