who after a decade or several years you will honestly go to all lengths to avoid because you are not a revenge seeker, and you don't have the time to bitch or gossip or spread hate because you have too many priorities in your life but you can say hand on chest you did your best so you are justified to say, "I can cut ties because I know I can keep friendships and fight and pick up and mend it with those worth it, because even hearing your name makes me sick?"

TMI?

Isn't this what corner is for, so can spew without being judged?

Exactly.