My bf is my second partner ever and he has a lot more sexual experience than I do. When we first got together I’d say things like, “I didn’t know it was possible to feel that good” when he found my g spot - or - “no one has ever gone down on me, ever. You’re magic”. I still say he’s magic.

But.

He’s concerned that it’s not as easy to get me off after a few months of dating, as it was in our first weeks.

Any tips to help he and I learn about my body?

I see it this way: well duh it’s never going to be as magic as in the beginning, especially with so many of my firsts. It feels like a lot of pressure to continue on at That level of pleasure and grow from there, especially when to a big extend our Individual pleasure feeds each other’s enjoyment.

I’ve told him it’s sweet that he wants to add to my pleasure and grow, but how do I share that pressure part in a constructive way?