So I met a guy. (21 m) He said something about wanting to have me by his side and I told him that we could work on getting to know each other and see where things go. He then told me something along the lines of “yeah definitely, but also, I’m on vacation right now (out of the country), and I won’t be back until maybe March so since I’m over here, idk if that’d be fair to you because we wouldn’t be able to hang out in person..” I kind of understand what he means but at the same time, why not just work with what we have? Pretty sure we can wait a month without hanging out in person, it’s just a month. It just sounded like he was saying “I’m on vacation right now, so I wanna wait until I get back”