Hi

I don't know if I'm just being dramatic or what.

I'm seriously considering what I've done wrong in my marriage.

I've been with my husband for 8 years and over the last 5 years at least, he's shown me no appreciation.

I don't even ask for gifts but some attention would be nice.

50% of the day, Im at work and the other 50% he stays in his computer room all night.

He never spends any time with me or the children and the only time he wants to know me is if he wants sex. And even that, he's selfish with.

Now it's valentine's Day today and I'm kinda embarrassed. On our anniversary/Christmas/birthdays/father's Day and valentine's, I will always show my appreciation. Even if it's something little like a Facebook post. He literally won't even bring himself to do that. Last year, my mom actually got me a mother's Day card of the children as he couldn't be bothered.

Im not a bunny boiler and I'm quite a laid back person but I'm starting to actually question whether he even loves me. I bring it up with him and he gets really cranky and we end up arguing.

What's your advice?