My bf went into this originally wanting to get cheesy little gifts. So I ordered some and put effort into writing the little jokes and puns on the gifts.

All of a sudden two weeks later he’s not about vday.

So I feel like I had to pull teeth here. Finally he semi caved when I reminded him it’s my first ever vday and then he felt bad.

So Saturday we go two hours from his down to my house so he meets my parents. We go to the store that night for dinner and it’s kinda hard to ignore the chocolates balloons and flowers. He kinda hesitated passing the flowers and he asks if I wanted any.

I get he couldn’t really of gotten them before hand so whatever

I am really happy he got me them at this point I wasn’t expecting anything.

So this morning we head to the beach for an adventure / date for vday. He clearly planned it out just the night before at the dinner table.

So I appreciate that we went to the beach. Again it was just no real effort planning it.

We get back to his apartment and I had a plan to make choc strawberries. I bought all the stuff for it a couple days prior. I wanted to do hmwk first so we could really have fun with it but he says we could do it while we made dinner to kill two birds w one stone. Like he was not wanting to do this at all. Then he proceeded to make fun of my dad who he just met the other day. My dad is kinda awkward sometimes and is starting to get forgetful so when he makes fun of the way he spoke in front of his roommate it set me off completely.

I just feel like he doesn’t care. He said today “usually what I do for vday is I’ll get the girl choc n flowers, go on an adventure date and give her a nail day “ ... nice. I don’t want to just have a reused idea but at that point I’d have taken anything that showed he cared. He didn’t have to spend money or get me something gift wise. I’m not materialistic. I don’t really want him to spend money on me anyway. Make a damn card or somethjng idk. Not just last minute things he feels obligated to do.