PLS HELP!

My ingrowns are starting to get so bad! I’ve never had an issue until I started waxing (Brazilian wax ) about 6 months ago . I waxed 3-4 times then I stopped because I start to get the ingrown hairs and I thought waxing was the problem and when I started shaving again but then I went back to waxing but now it’s just so bad and I don’t know if I should continue waxing or just shave from now on and I do exfoliate I do have scrubs I feel like I’m doing everything I can right now. Help a girl out 🥺