Partner won’t help :(

Mine and my partners cat started vomiting today and just not himself. This happened 20 minutes before I had to drive to my parents house to drop my daughter off as I had an appointment. My partner isn’t even working today, and I called her to ask her if she could take OUR cat to the vets ASAP as he was heavily breathing and vomiting.

She then said “ ohhhhh what.. why can’t you do it “ I said I have an app and I can’t cancel. I said I will call the vets and say your coming ASAP. She then COMPLAINED about doing it.. I then hung up on her as I was so upset she wouldn’t even help me.

All she is doing is sitting at her Mums house around the pool.

I then had to leave my cat till I come back :( I am legit in tears. My partner won’t even help me when i need her :(

It upsets me that I do everything and anything for her but she can’t do this for me.

Will do anything for her friends.. help them move house for days and drop things off during quarantine for them.. but won’t do anything for me.. or take our cat to the vet