Should I have a baby?
Alright so I know it’s not as easy to just ask that but I’ve been having baby fever pretty consistently for the past few months and I don’t know if it’s because of my new boyfriend or what..
We’ve been together just 3 months on March 1st. I’ve talked to him about when he would want to have a child just put of respect and wanting this to be my last relationship I feel it’s good to ask those questions. He said whenever I’m ready. I’ve asked him to clarify a good timeline for him (ex:earliest and latest he’d be willing to) and he said literally whenever I’m ready for earliest but not past 35 for him at the latest. He’s just turned 25 and I’m going to be 22 extremely soon. I have friends with children already... is it wrong to want one already with him? I have a house I rent that would definitely have enough rooms... he basically has said he’d be fine with it. But I keep going back and forth between if I should or not. Do I just want a kid because it’s what I’m programmed into thinking I want? Do I not want one because I’m also programmed into thinking I need a perfect situation to bring a child into the world? I just have been wanting a baby so much but I’m so scared to start that journey and nervous to start it... so tell me what you think! Should I? Should there be certain questions to ask myself or my boyfriend before we begin this journey together? Thank you all so much💗
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