My fiancé just told me he thinks we’re are going to separate before our daughter turns 1 because our relationship is so unstable. Whenever we talk about our issues all the problems revolve around me. When I tell him the thing he does/doesn’t do that upset me he tells me that he would be better if I did the things he wants me to do more. And that the way he’s acting is all directly my fault.

I genuinely think I must just be the worst partner in the world. We’ve been together almost 6 years and I’m going to lose my family because I just can’t seem to be enough. If we separate I have nowhere to go and I’m a sahm so I have no money to get an apartment which means he’s going to take our daughter from me.

I don’t know what to do. I suggested we go to counseling but he doesn’t want to. He said I’m never going to change because all the things he hates about me have been bothering him the entire time we’ve been together and he was hoping I’d change by now...

Life feels really fucking hopeless right now.