Is something wrong with me?

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My fiance is 49 and I'm 38 it seems like I want sex all the time and I always have to initiate it but when I do he's down and he has no problem was getting aroused but why is it that I always have to initiate it. Could he be getting it somewhere else or maybe not attracted to me or maybe I'm just more of a sexual person than he is any suggestions or advice??

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It just sounds like his drive is different than yours or he isn’t an initiator.

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Your sex drive is at its peak in your 30's. His hit its peak in his early 20's. He's way on the other side now. I'm with him on this and I'm only 44.

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I would also like to add that when I try to talk about this he accuses me of trying to start an argument because I want more sex from him. I just don't understand it? I thought men are the ones that are supposed to want more sex all the time...

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if you dont know for sure if he cheating, then dont accuse him...i will say that your age says that you are in your prime, but he is not. He might not want that often anymore. Dont initiate it for a bit and do everything that you used to do b4 to get his attention. That might work!

Is something wrong with me?

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