I don’t think my husband cares about my feelings towards celebrating Valentine’s Day. 5 years married and every year I keep politely telling him that I want us to be celebrating Valentine’s Day. I tell him that it’s not about the gifts, but he should just get me a card, or even a text message wishing me a happy Valentine’s Day. I make efforts by buying him a present and getting him a card, but what do I get in return? Absolutely nothing. He just apologies. Same thing every single year. This year, I did not remind him again and I wanted to see if he would honour my wishes and if not for anything, just tell me “happy Valentine’s Day”... he didn’t do anything! Valentine’s Day has gone again this year and not even a single acknowledgement from my husband. I feel so sad seeing all these beautiful messages that my friends husbands send to them... why can’t my husband make an effort? I haven’t said anything to him because I am tired of saying the same thing every year. I just wanted a simple message to wish me a happy Valentine’s Day... was that too much to ask for? Must I always be the one to take the initiative and have him apologise for not doing something basic that will make me happy? Am I wrong to feel this way?