My boyfriend and I have the same birthday and we are turning 21 this year and would like to go on a trip to celebrate. For obvious reasons the past year has been hard, we have been working reallt hard, and we are about the most boring 20 year olds. We 99% of the time hangout with our parents. But my parents are totally not on board with it. Because they think we should wait to be married. My point of view is I don't want to wait to do fun things in my life just to be married. My boyfriend and I talk about it often but it will be forsure once he's done with school or maybe longer. I feel like if our intention is thay for the future I don't see the issue. Bit they keep brining up it won't be right in God's eyes. But I am just torn