I’ve been with my boyfriend a little over a year and everything was fine up until we got pregnant. I had some complications and ended being high risk miscarriage for the first half of my pregnancy.

I’m now into my second trimester and he’s just changed. He acts weird and moody.. mad a lot as well. We were cleared to have sex 9 weeks into my pregnancy and I’m now 13 weeks. we’ve had sex twice in the past 4 months. He won’t touch me, nothing. He only pecks me to say bye when he leaves. I ask why and he just says he’s too tired or shrugs me off but I find stupid rags laying around from him jacking off all the time. I don’t have problems with him doing this so don’t think that. But when he’d rather do that then be affectionate with me, it’s really making me feel horrible.

He tells me he gets the shit end of the stick in this pregnancy since he has to deal with me, my emotions and all my symptoms of being tired etc.

Girls, I don’t know what to do. Has anyone else had these problems while pregnant and it work out? What did you guys do to help? I don’t have anyone to talk to about this and the one person I did was my mom. She passed last March.

I’ve talked to him, cried.. pleaded with him. I just feel unattractive and unwanted in so many ways. Any advice helps, thank you.