When did you/will you be telling your parents/siblings? This is our first baby and will be the first grandchild on both sides. We planned on telling at 8 weeks (next weekend) because it is my Dad’s birthday. Just found out my first ultra sound won’t be until 12weeks (March 29th) conflicted because we want to tell but nervous to tell them before an ultra sound/hearing the heart beat since we wouldn’t be 100% confident that everything is okay with the baby. I have had no symptoms indicating anything is wrong.

And have to trust that no one will say anything four another 4-5 weeks lol

What do you guys think?