So I went in for my first appointment and ultrasound today, was supposed to be 9 weeks but found out I had lost the baby around about 8weeks. They gave me the usual wait and see options vs D&C, I’m leaning towards the 2nd because I want to heal and move on, plus I’m still having pregnancy symptoms and am miserable, but I am naturally having some seconds thoughts.

This was my first pregnancy and I was excited, so I’m also struggling with the loss. Any words of encouragement or advice from those who have been there?

Also, my husband says he’s more worried about me, but I know he was really excited too and had even picked out a name so anything to help him?