EDIT: I’m not sure why some of you are so stuck on where the damn water came from lol I am eco friendly so I keep gallon jugs of water so I don’t have to buy water bottles. I had at least 12 jugs at my garage at my apartment and I gave my coworker 2. My mom has this filtration system/machine that is connect to the faucet and that’s where we fill up our jugs. My parents don’t care that we fill up jugs and they aren’t the type of people that would be stingy and but hurt if they knew I was giving someone water 🙄 also, if I didn’t have it to give, I would have given it. My family is doing just fine. They are warm, fed and HYDRATED.

Also, to the person saying I was ignoring what my husband was saying... how? And why are you assuming that every day I’m not listening to him?? Lol like you are around us everyday. If you read my post throughly I said that these messages were between calls. He knew I was calling but didn’t answer bc the game he plays can’t be paused. He heard it ringing, he was the one ignoring me. It looks I automatically got mad but I talked to him over the phone before I sent the second text. He was lying to me about being on the game and I know bc I saw him on FT when I called my daughter... twice.

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*****So I am a property manager at the same complex I live in. People are out of water and electricity in most places here in TX but at my apartment he have jugs of water that I fill up at my parents house bc they have a fancy filtration system on her sink!

Anyway, my coworker has to return home hours away and has NO running water at home. Her in laws used their drinking water to flush the toilet so I told them we have a bunch and I will go get some from my apartment.

Well, my car wouldn’t start bc it’s freezing and I can’t walk to my building as it is icy and I’m 28 weeks pregnant.

I was calling my husband to bring our battery jumper and the water. He didn’t answer so I called my daughters iPad and he is on the video game.

Now, the game playing has been such a HUGE issue in our household lately. I don’t care that he is playing but I needed him really quick so I just told him to check his texts...

He wasn’t texting or calling back so I called my daughter again and he was still sitting on his ass. My daughter even says, daddy has been playing his game all day!

At this point I was frustrated bc I’m right here and you can’t get off the game for a second to help me out.

I don’t normally get into cursing and going off. I really try to remain cool calm and collected but I’ve had it with the game getting in the way of things that are just more important.

My coworker is about to leave and he’s just sitting there and I sweat I would have just done it myself if I could or asked her to drive me around there but I’m not asking her to do that when I have a husband there... that isn’t doing anything besides playing video games.

On top of that, he doesn’t give a damn that I’m trying. To help people out. It is awful out here. People are without heat and water... it’s hard for people to get to food.. people are dying in their cars trying to stay warm and he’s being an asshole basically saying he doesn’t want to share water out of all things... like, this is not who I married 😔 that is so unkind and I will do whatever I can to help. I feel embarrassed.

It may seem like I’m over reacting but when I tell y’all this is almost everyday...

This is how the conversation went.. this is over an hour and i between phone calls, so I didn’t jump right into the feeling like an idiot part....