It’s very annoying that I have to constantly remind my bf to do stuff. I ask him to do the laundry once and he puts in 1 load into the washer, hops on his video game and that’s it. What about the other loads? What about putting the clothes in the dryer?

I ask my bf to cook and he takes out the meat to let it defrost and forgets to go back to cooking. Unless I’m reminding him throughout the day to do and finish something he’ll forget.

Well I came back from my best friend’s house and I had to park around the corner because family was over and there was no room in our driveway or along the street. On the way back from my best friend’s house, I stopped to grab my bf and I tacos because I knew he hadn’t ate and was craving them. We ate and we were doing well and that’s when my family was leaving.

I asked my bf if he could park the car in our driveway so that we wouldn’t have to leave it on the street around the corner (where it was barely visible) and he said he’d do it later. I work in the morning (he works at night but is off this week) and I didnt want to walk all the way around the corner and deal with walking in the snow or have any worries about leaving it out. He repeated he’d do it later and I asked him if he could at least set an alarms so he wouldn’t forget. He got upset and asked me if his words meant anything and I said that’s not the issue. I told him he always forgets to do stuff when I ask him to and truthfully since he doesn’t need the car tomorrow he’d easily forget. He got mad at me and said “fuck his words right”.

That’s when I started to get mad because I even explained to him situations where he forgot to do stuff and he said no fuck me whatever. At this point I told him I’d go do it myself (I was in pjs) and he got up all mad and started cursing saying things like “man what the fuck ever I’ll go fucking do it. You’re acting like such a fucking asshole” and left.

He came back into the house stomping his feet around and slamming doors and what not and that’s when I told him he was acting like a fucking child. He said he didn’t give a fuck and I told him to stop. He kept mumbling stuff under his breath and I told him to quit acting like a damn child or else he’d sleep on the couch. He said fuck this and put his shoes back on, grabbed the keys and left.

Now this isn’t even news to me, anytime he gets too mad he always walks out of the house for 20-40 minutes and comes back with the silent treatment until he cools down. Usually I cry because I worry about him and/or our relationship but I’m honestly getting tired of his crap. I didn’t curse at him or yell at him or say anything that wasn’t true, and yet he’s cursing and stomping his feet throwing a damn tantrum? Am I dating a 25 or 5 year old?? We’ve been together for 7 years now and it’s starting to exhaust me. Idk how to talk to him when he gets like that. And I got tired of letting him say/do whatever he wants to me. Well tonight I’m not shedding any tears, it isn’t worth it.