So a question (probably stupid )

Jakke

I’m talking to someone-

I feel chest pain/tightness, like I can’t breath, tension to the point I hurt my jaw & neck... & a cold dread/fear...

And my head is now killing me...

Why does this happen- it’s NOT with everyone- it’s only a few people (sadly they are ALL my relatives [this one is “mother”])

I don’t get like this normally. Normally I just feel really uncomfortable.