So my husband is very secretive; he deletes and messages he receives today from the corner of my eye I see him delete a message on Facebook with hearts floating up. (First he said his sister sent it; then he said it was him turning on vanish mode.)

I’m thinking about adding his messenger on my phone.

(Btw): he has a bad lying habit and has a past of asking for nudes from friends) he tends to work a lot of overtime; (this past 2 weeks he has 48 hours overtime.) Any day he is off he wants to go to work; he says it’s for us and that maybe true but idk...

What are you opinions?

Edit:: yes I can look at his checks and verify; he works with primarily women to which he brags that one has a crush on him. He also has a old co-worker that he blocked off of my Facebook (I did unblock her)