What do i do?

Question

What do i do if i am not at my boyfriends level of freaky? I understand trying things and I’m up for it but what if you’re just not as freaky as him? What do you do?

Answer

Someone said to compromise..... that could be an option but it needs to be 100% fair to both parties but especially you. You have the right to say yes and no to what happens with your body and if something hurts, makes you scared, uncomfortable then it’s time to stop. If he’s pressuring you to do anything and it’s clear you don’t like it then he’s not the one for you. I had an ex that tried to get me to do a fake r**e fantasy and the way he went about it scared me. He didn’t even ask he just started “acting” it out and I literally had to yell at him to stop but I was the bad guy 🙄. Please have strong boundaries and discuss them with your partner

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You two need to have a conversation about what you both like and are comfortable with. You don’t have to do anything that you are not comfortable with!!! 
If there are some things that he likes that you are at least willing to give a try, then tell him that. 
Good luck

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I ex was a borderline sex addict and he was really freaky. A big part of why I left him is because he would pressure me into doing things that I wasn’t comfortable doing and I simply hated doing some sexual things that he loved. We just weren’t sexually compatible.

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If you're. It compatible it's a conversation that needs to be had. It depends on how big a part those kinds of things play in a relationship for the two of you.

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You compromise.

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