Hi all, I'm a long time lurker, I read posts constantly and use the app heavily for tracking and keeping a log of each months cycle and meds/procedures.

I'm reaching out because I'm really struggling with the future and fear of the unknown.

This month marks two years of trying. Im a research freak and have a "do it and do it right" mentality. Im 30 now. I've done all the tracking, medicated cycles with Clomid, Femara, injectibles (Follistim and triggers), clear HSG, no MFI. Im fit and eat well, cut out alcohol blah blah blah. Today is cycle Day 1 of our last, and unsuccessful 3rd <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a>. My RE basically told me there wasn't anything else she could do and is referring me to another one.

We have unexplained infertility. I ovulate on my own and have regular, although extremely painful, periods. My doctor dismissed endometriosis, and nothings been seen as far as cysts on my many ultrasounds. Bloodwork is fine. I respond to meds just great. Been on progesterone supps for 6 months. Thyroid checked. Slightly tilted uterus.

I'm not ready mentally, physically or financially for <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a>. My body had a hard time with the injectibles. The ovary pain after each cycle with them was rough and they make me crazy. We've spent thousands these past two years for nothing. I don't know what to do or what to think.

I'm taking a few months off and started a program with a naturopath to fight potential inflammation as a grasping at straws attempt to do anything helpful, but what do I do to plan next steps? I'd love your ladies wisdom, advice, tough love, encouragement, or experiences. Help me decide what is next and give me your stories. It would be so, so appreciated.

I never really comment or post but I'm around and I've certainly thought of many of you as you've gone through hard and happy times, this community has been my comfort more times than you know! Best wishes to all!